Category: Teen

  • Conversation Etiquette: “Thank you” & “You are welcome”

    Conversation Etiquette: “Thank you” & “You are welcome”

    Thank you.  As a parent, I cannot tell you how many times I have “reminded” my people to say, “Thank you”.  Since they could speak it has been a mantra in my parenting.  “Did you say Thank you?”, is often the first thing I will say when they return to my care after being at a friend’s house.  Lately…

  • Top Three Table Manners Questions

    Top Three Table Manners Questions

    Hello, Hopeful Readers!  There are three general areas of questions I receive about Etiquette and Communication:   Questions from readers and clients are some of my favorite things!! I thought it would be fun to take one week a month and look at each topic.   Let’s start with table manners:   The way we learn how to…

  • The Gift Recap

    The Gift Recap

    Links to gifts I gave this holiday that my family has actually used.

  • Define Leadership

    Define Leadership

    One of the first questions I like to ask the teens I work with is, “What does it mean when someone says be a leader?”  Silence is what tends to follow.  Then I will ask, “Has anyone ever told you to be a leader?  What do you think they meant?”  Now I might get a few answers like, “Do…

  • On the topic of friends…

    On the topic of friends…

    This past month has taught me a lot about friendship.  As some of you know, my son broke his tibia and fibula while playing in his high school football game.

  • The Lady and her Gloves, and other musings of attire.

    The Lady and her Gloves, and other musings of attire.

     I can share that the symbol of a young lady wearing white gloves often brings forth strong feelings and interesting questions…  My advice is to purchase a full-length mirror… Instead of allowing the interaction to be a power struggle, consider listening and looking at what they are trying to communicate with you as a whole picture….

  • Introductions and Updates

    Introductions and Updates

    Teaching, public speaking, raising awareness, making another person’s life better, this is why I am in the world.  A moment when I can make eye contact, and listen to what another person has to say, and hear the intention, not just the words, that is my passion.  What I do is to work with people so they…

  • My daughter bought a goat this weekend.

    My daughter bought a goat this weekend.

    Yes, you read that correctly.  My 17-year-old Piccolina is now the proud owner of a goat.  Allow me to explain.  As some of you can imagine, yes, she is doing this for a high school FFA project.  She has wanted to raise an animal for a few years, but we had always encouraged her to wait.   Apparently, this was the…

  • Introductions

    Introductions

    Which brings me to the topic I would like to discuss with you.  At what point do we stop being introduced as “insert child’s name- Mother”?  If teachers and coaches are addressed with a formal title, should a parent except the same?  Is there an age for this transition?  My people are turning into teenagers,…

  • Keep your Eyes in the direction of your Feet

    Keep your Eyes in the direction of your Feet

    The past two years have been a journey. Life has shifted in every area.  Reflecting on the ways I move about the world has brought me back to a simple statement I have used with my children since they were two years old.  “Keep your Eyes in the direction of your Feet.”